"Getting older isn't optional but growing up is."

Why does it seem that every guy I've ever dated subscribes to this philosophy? They also seem to all hide it so well right up until it jumps out at you and punches you in the gut. Even the guy who seems so confident in himself and ready for marriage and you think "wow, you're different" really isn't. It's lurking deep down in him and somehow I'm the one that manages to make it manifest itself. Great job Nadine!